With all the hype surrounded around men, chivalry and what it means
for a man to be a gentleman, I think it’s only fair to also explore some
dating tips
for women, and what it means for a woman to be a lady. If a
gentleman is expected to open doors, walk on the inside of the curb,
pull out chairs and pay for dinners, then what should be expected of a
lady in exchange? When a man first approaches a woman, it’s true
that most men are only after one thing. But if you want something
different, like an exclusive commitment, then it is your job as
the woman to set the standards for that new relationship from the very
beginning. You see, there are two types of women the men go after –
keepers and playthings – and the way you respond to a man’s advances is
what sets you apart in the eyes of a relationship ready man. So if you
think chivalry is dead, think again because you just might not be doing
your part as a lady. If you’re looking for a relationship ready
man who is a keeper, then you need to be a keeper yourself. Here are a
few things to consider if your want to separate yourself as a lady from
all the playthings.
Dating Tip #1 - A keeper is a woman of virtue.
A
woman who knows what she wants, and knows how she wants to be treated is
incredibly attractive. A lady is the type of woman who knows how to be
sexy without showing too much skin, and can hold her own in almost any
situation she finds herself in. She is honest and upfront with the men
she chooses to date, and she sets clear boundaries if a man is the
relationship ready man she is looking for. Most importantly, she’s not
afraid to let a man walk away if he can’t give her want she wants.
Dating Tip #2 - A keeper commands respect and carries herself as such.
As your officer of love, it's my responsibility to remind you of your rights. Everything
you do or say can and will be held against you in the court of love.
While most men really are after one thing, that’s only initial response,
because every now and then when we discover that rare woman of virtue,
she not only has our attention but our respect as well. She alone
dictates how a relationship ready man is to treat her and how their
relationship will progress on her terms.
Dating Tip #3 - A keeper allows a man to be a man.
Men
are very ego-driven. We may get into bar fights because of our egos,
but we also fall in love because of our egos. We know we’re not perfect,
but having the support of a woman who appreciates us anyway, and values
us as the man we have become really helps validate us as men. A real
lady doesn’t insult her man when he messes up or does something wrong.
Instead, she reinforces to him how strong he is, how smart he is or how
competent he is at the things he does do right. If you want a gentleman, then you need to be the lady a gentleman rightfully deserves because relationship ready men are essentially gentleman in search of their fair lady.
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Excellent pointers here and thanks for sharing.
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