No one is perfect, therefore everyone is flawed. What differentiates most
people however, is how openly flawed they actually are. How much they embrace those
flaws, embrace the individuals they are, how well they understand themselves
and how much effort they are willing to put into developing those flawed areas.
The word “flawed” is seen as holding a negative meaning, but I’m not certain why
that is. Being flawed is only natural. In fact, it’s the reason the world is
the way it is and works the way it works.
Without flaws, there would be no evolution, no mistakes, no
lessons learned, and no innovation. A flaw is nothing more than a divergence
from the nonexistent perfection that human beings have dreamed up in their
heads. It’s these differences, these imperfections that allow for uniqueness,
individuality and beauty. The most interesting women in the world are by far
the most flawed. To me, they are the most beautiful, the most memorable, and the most
unforgettable. The beautifully flawed woman has been turning the world of men upside
down for centuries, and will continue to do so for as long as men are around to
believe in eternity.
The more beautifully flawed she is, the more unforgettable she is - We remember things and people who stand out and don’t fall into
the background of our lives as most things and people tend to do. Human beings quickly
become accustomed to their surroundings. It may seem unfortunate but the truth
is, without becoming accustomed to things and individuals, we would remain in a
constant state of stress and discomfort. We get accustomed in order to allow
our minds to rest and focus on other aspects of our lives. Every so often, something in our immediate environment we have yet to see or experience presents itself. Sometimes that something
is an interesting woman; the way she looks, speaks, thinks, dresses, smells,
smiles, the habits she has, the way she drinks her coffee, and her particular sense
of humor. Sometimes it’s how she can’t seem to pick a garbage bin because there
are too many color options. Sometimes it’s how she seems to always be an
emotional wreck and how all we want to do is to console her, kiss her and tell
her everything will be all right. Sometimes it’s how she breaks our heart by
not being able to commit, by not appreciating us, by not being emotionally or
mentally ready to be in a relationship. Whatever the case may be, these “flaws”
as many would call them, will make forgetting her even more unlikely.
The more beautifully flawed she is, the more likely she is to shake up your world - What flaws most often lead to is the unexpected, which is one of the main
reasons people look down upon them. We men are creatures of habit, creatures that do
our best to hold on to our current realities for as long as possible. We don’t
like change. We fear the unknown and fear the decisions that the unknown almost
always bring. Flaws are fine as long as they are our own; we may be in an
elongated state of denial, but regardless of whether or not we’re accepting of
them, we know they are there. We’re already accustomed to the reality they
allow for. Cue the beautifully flawed woman gliding or stumbling into our lives, and we’re
at a loss of words. We’re thrown into a sort of state of confusion and excitement because we
become exposed to a different way of living life, a different way of doing
things, a different reality that has existed right under our nose this entire
time. Sometimes this new version of the world is exactly the change we’re
looking for. Other times it’s a detour from our reality, a sort of vacation,
but one we aren’t likely to forget.
Being beautifully flawed breeds more flaws, but she’ll keep you guessing - If someone was to ask me to describe my dream woman in one word, it would be
“fascinating”. The only way to keep me around is to keep me wondering, keep me
thinking, keep me guessing, and keep me wanting to get to know you a little
better. Not all men are the same, but we’re all cut from a similar cloth. Men
get bored easily, some more easily than others, but
men are constantly searching for novelty. Maybe this is why so many seem to find it difficult to settle down, to
decide she’s the one, and we’ll never have need for another. Find a woman who’s flawed in just the right
way, and she will be more than you need, and maybe even more than you can
handle. Flaws allow for innovation and evolution. They allow for the
unexpected, which in turn allows one to take advantage and seize
opportunities. If you find the right flawed woman to make a part of your life,
you’ll be in love with a woman who is constantly changing, constantly evolving,
constantly learning and adapting. Of course, not all women have the courage to
embrace such a reality, but they do exist. At the same time, most men don’t
have the courage to love such a woman, but that would be their loss.
The beautifully flawed aren’t afraid to do, think, and be a little different - There has never existed a perfect man or woman in the history of
the human race, nor will ever such an individual exist. We are born to be
flawed. My question would be, why are so many of us afraid to embrace the
reality we’re already a part of? Some flaws are positive; others are negative. Which one you are is completely up to you, no matter what anyone else will have you
believe. If you’re not happy with yourself or happy with a certain aspect of your
life, then change it. Make the necessary tweaks so you can look yourself in
the mirror and love the person you see.
I’m flawed in a million and one ways, as is every other human being to have
ever walked this earth. I accept my flaws, and I work on the flaws I can
change and use the flaws I can’t change to my advantage. Men need to find a beautifully
flawed woman who does the same. If you find someone who embraces and takes
charge of her reality, and uses those flaws to leave her own mark in this hectic
world of ours, then you’ll find that one of the greatest impacts she will ever make
in her life is the positive impact she will have on his life…
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