RELATIONSHIP LESSON: If they can't be a good example, they'll make a horrible warning...Dating shouldn't be any different than interviewing for the job that you want, and dating someone shouldn't be any different either. After all, dating is one big interview spread out over dinner, drinks and casual conversation.
So, tell me about yourself?
Where do you see yourself in five years?
How do you handle pressure?
Why did you leave your last employer (or relationship)?
We all have questions and we need those questions answered, so what better time is there to interview than on the date itself. There are red flags that we have to be aware of, and during the interview flags are thrown all over the place. Especially when subtle mentions are made, but a persons character is best defined in the subjects they can talk about so be aware of everything! What we will be covering over the course of the next few posts are DATING INTERVIEW QUESTIONS, so prepare yourself for some hard hitting questions (some you may have heard before, others hopefully you haven't). If you have any interview questions, email me at therealcakebossblog@gmail.com and I will post the best ones to help make the date an interview, not an interrogation.
So my question is :after having your guards up for soooooo long.....how do you let them down and allow love to enter into your world again?
ReplyDeleteI'm in love with the idea of being in love but I'm afraid of the hurt that comes from love....
Iguess I worded that right...:-/
Well Schmetta, the best way to let love in again, is to trust yourself to know when the right time will be. The right time is when you're comfortable with who you are, because to a man, confidence is VERY sexy! Let love find you, even if it takes its time and even if love hasn't been so loving in return, you can't let the heartbreak or disapointment of it change your outlook. If that happens, you won't be too appealing to anyone.
ReplyDeleteGreat question, hope this helps...