Wednesday, October 24, 2012

Just a Little Advice...

A relationship should feel good to both the man and the woman. The man wants to feel comfortable with the woman he has selected. He doesn't want to feel put upon or pressured in the beginning. If he feels pressured, he'll look elsewhere for peace. If it is to work, he should be allowed to be himself at any given time. The relationship should feel as comfortable and as natural to him as blinking.
The woman should feel relaxed in the presence of her man. She shouldn't feel that she have to hide anything from the relationship. When she's comfortable with him she can workout and not feel ashamed because she's sweaty and needs to take a shower. She can eat in front of him, or choose not to talk to him at all if she likes. If she wants, she can lay up all day quietly in his presence and still feel that everything is okay. A woman will have no problem being herself or acting like herself when she's comfortable with her man. No fronts, or no false ideas of what a woman should be while with her man. She feels sure, alive, and happy, and men should want their women to be this way!
A woman should be able to give her man a fair shot at making the relationship work. It's difficult for a woman to become familiar and understand him and if she keeps running back to her past relationships or taking advice from other people. Give the relationship a fair chance to work! Both should be able to stay and work things out when there are problems in the relationship. It's easy for a woman to run to another person when things are happening in the relationship that make her angry. You should not allow others to interfere when you're having problems in the relationship that you're trying to keep solid. Give the relationship a reasonable amount of time to work.
Women are trying to make the relationship work by pushing, and pushing, and pushing. My advice to women everywhere is "don't sweat it". When a woman tries to force a relationship to happen it just doesn't work, plain and simple. You gotta learn to give him "time and room", and if it doesn't work in that "time and room", then take your "time" to leave his "room"!

2 comments:

  1. Great post, I admire the writing style :) A little off topic here but what theme are you using? Looks pretty cool.

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  2. True, true true. Men need their space not pressure. #AJ

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