Last week, you were presented with an explanation as to why he doesn’t call you his girlfriend.
While it explores the reasons behind a man’s intentions, I think it’s
important to explore the reasons behind the woman’s mentality as well. While most women would love to have a boyfriend or at least an
“exclusive” partner, there are certain behaviors that are just
unacceptable for people trying to fill this role. I know it’s hard to
digest, but women are just as capable as men of having casual, sexual
relations. I know, its mind-blowing! Just because she seems interested in you sexually, does not mean
she’s eager to call you her boyfriend. Certain behaviors are acceptable
for a casual hook up, are just not acceptable for the role of a
boyfriend. Let’s take a look at the reasons she doesn’t call you her boyfriend:
You Hook-up With Everybody!
If you are a well-known player, why the hell would she even try to
enter a committed relationship with you? You claim you want a
girlfriend, but chances are you are hooking up with whatever girl will
go home with you that night, exposing you to something you might want.
How enticing.
Your Idea Of A Date Is Drinks.
This is not a date, this is an excuse to get someone drunk enough to
convince them to go home with you. Ladies if you think this is a date,
you need a reality check. While this may be sufficient enough for the
first few dates, if these are the only outings you are going on
together, he is not boyfriend material.
You Never Chill Sober.
The best part of having a counterpart is spending those mundane
afternoons together. If you are incapable of hanging out while sober,
how do you expect to have any depth to your relationship? Chances are
you probably won’t even remember half of your encounters if you are
inebriated.
She’s Using You.
Girls can play the field just as well, if not better, than men. Why
buy the cow when you get the milk for free isn’t just a one-way street.
Open your eyes and your minds, girls can have unemotional sex too. If
you are only hanging out with this girl past the hours of 1 a.m. and she
only vaguely remembers having sex with you, chances are you are just
not boyfriend material. You are a play thing and nothing serious; you
serve your purpose and move on.
She Doesn’t Want To Move Too Fast.
Some girls are old-fashioned and don’t want to be the one to
initiate a relationship. Secretly this girl could be head over heels in
love with you, but she doesn’t want to call you her boyfriend because
she doesn’t want to freak you out. Hopefully if she sticks it out long
enough and you two behave in the way a couple does, you will eventually
make the move.
You’re Soft.
Nice guys are way too available; girls love the chase and the
challenge. They need someone with a backbone, not someone they can
discuss their female problems with. No one ever cherishes something or
someone that has come effortless to him or her. They strive after
worthwhile things and everyone knows something worthwhile never comes
easily.
It’s Sexual.
First of all, there’s a difference between dating a guy and having
sex with a guy. Sex doesn’t always involve intimacy and this is
something people of both sexes fail to realize. There are just some
people you have sexual relationships with and there are some people you
have intimate relationships with. If you are simply enjoying each
other’s company while you hook up, this is a friends with benefits
situation, and nothing more.
Her Friends Don’t Like You.
A girl will always verify a guy to some extent before getting into a
committed relationship with said person. If you’re not passing the
friend test, there’s basically a 90% chance this girl will not date you.
Sure, she may hook up with you from time to time, all out of good fun
of course, but she will never enter a relationship with a person her
friends detest.
Her Parents Don’t Like You
Back in the day it was cool and rebellious to date someone against
your parents’ wishes, but in your 30's and 40's that just doesn’t fly. You
want to share experiences with your family and your partner, making
situations much more pleasant. It’s no fun to bring home a guy to
Thanksgiving dinner that no one wants there.
She’s Hung Up On Her Ex.
The past always wins when a girl is clinging to her ex. There is
already a ton of emotional investment there. Sure, she may be
with you, but if she is still hung up on her ex, the only thing
you are getting from this girl is conversation. She is not going to commit to another
person no matter how hard you try. The sooner this is recognized, the
better it is for both parties.
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