Can you recognize a booty call right away? Can you really tell if you are a booty call yourself? Some ladies might like to
be booty called every now and then, especially if they are head over
heels with the guy who calls them in the middle of the night just to have a good time. Of course such scenarios might
also lead to confusion, as to whether the guy is truly into them or if
he is only after sex. Of course, booty calls can also be mistaken for
emerging affairs. And at times, at rarest of times, booty calls could
turn into serious relationships. Who knows where love might spring
out? Ok, I had to laugh at that one myself. But seriously, can you honestly tell the difference between a booty call
and a potential mate? Do you mind being considered and treated like a
simple booty call? If you're the casual type, you probably
won’t mind knowing that you are. If you have started to catch feelings for the
guy, it might be time to throw some light over these late night affairs
between the sheets! So on February 15th, the day most people consider the day men recognize their mistress, other woman, side piece, dip, jump-off, or as one of my good friends say "draws-on-call". Here are some obvious signs that you may be in fact a
booty call and nothing more.
Sign #1: He has a girlfriend/fiancee/wife. If
the guy you are casually seeing is already officially involved in some
sort of relationship, or if you know for a fact that he is sleeping
around with other ladies as well, things should be pretty clear and your
questioning could probably stop right there. You are very likely
nothing but a booty call to him.
Sign #2: You spend most of your time together naked. Booty
calls now aren't necessarily made in the middle of the night to
be considered booty calls anymore. You could very well be spending your time
hanging around with the guy, maybe doing some stuff together like
watching a movie or eating lunch. But if invariably all of your
encounters are leading to sex one way or the other, or
if you are spending 80 percent of your time together in bed, chances are
he does not want anything more from you.
Sign #3: You (or at least one of you) are always tipsy when you meet. The most blatant sign may be if
he constantly insists on getting you tipsy, or drunk if you're already tipsy when you come around. Chances
are there is nothing much going on there, other than casual sex.
Sign #4: He never spends time with you after sleeping together. If
this guy constantly makes up excuses for not being able to spend the
night, or not being able to stay for a while longer the moment you finish
having sex, things are pretty clear. God forbid he rushes you
out after you end your "date". Chances are pretty good he solely wants you for your
“assets” and nothing more.
Sign #5: You never hang out with his friends or you’ve never met them. You have no clue who your booty call is hanging out with. He never
says his friends names or he does not even bother to introduce you
to his friends when he runs into them in the street. Uh, hello? Chances are you
don’t mean that much to him, to put it nicely.
Sign #6: Does he ever ask you about your day, job or life in general? If
this guy is not interested in knowing how your day at work went or even
what you do for a living, or if he barely finds the time to have a
meaningful conversation about your life and future plans in general, he
definitely does not picture sitting by your side in the long term.
Sign #7: Does he call late at night, inviting himself over? This
is of course one of the most obvious signs you should be looking for, but on the other hand the guy could also really be into you, but
definitely be skeptical.
Let me tell what kills your ability to see...it’s sex!
Sex smashes your discernment and throws it right out the window, and
discernment is your only defense against men with ill intent. Sex makes women fall in love, especially when its good sex. Sex is the glue
that can bind two people together. That kind of power and sharing
should NEVER be done with a man that you are unsure of, especially if you are considered the booty call. If that gateway to sex is ever opened before its time, the true measure of a mans intention to be with you is usually revealed
after sex...
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