Finding a man who actually knows how to court and date can be pretty
tricky. While there are some amazing guys out there who don’t need any
help, it seems that the majority of men desperately do. It’s tough to
know if guys do know how to date and are just being lazy out of fear of
really settling down of if they’re genuinely confused about what women
want. There are a handful of characteristics that women need to see before
considering a given man to be a viable option. So guys, if you’re
serious about a particular lady, check out this list of qualities that
women want to see in their men.
She wants a man who is a go-getter: All women like a confident man who knows what he wants and how to get
it. If you have a crush on a girl, go after her. Forget the games and
just be upfront; tell her that you’re interested and would like the
chance to get to know her better. She can only say yes or no — if she
says yes, awesome, if she says no, you’ve lost nothing.
She wants a man who calls: I've come to find that most women are totally fine with texting to feel each other
out, but I believe there should be a limit. Women are not pen pals; they would love to have a
steady balance between texting and calling.
She wants a man who makes plans: So you took a chance, got her number and gave her a call — now it’s
time to ask her out. Many guys seem to have trouble making solid plans
because they worry that she won’t be interested in the suggested
date. Consciously learn about the woman and what she likes to do while
you correspond with her via texts and phone calls, then plan
accordingly. Planning a thoughtful date is essential in the courting
process — work to do something she will love. It’s possible to plan
amazingly creative dates for under $50 if you make the effort.
She wants a man who focuses on just one girl: Often, when a guy meets a girl he actually likes, instead of her
being enough, he feels the need to keep a few other backup options
around, but these backup plans are likely not real options. If they
were, they’d be more than just a backup plan by now. While you’re not yet monogamously committed, courtship will proceed
much more seamlessly if you invest your time in just one girl. When you
date multiple women, you don’t give any of them a real chance.
She wants a respectful man: Again, while you’re not yet committed, it’s still important to be
respectful of her at all times. Be honest with her about your
intentions, don’t break promises and show up on time.
She wants a consistent man: Most guys I come across are on good behavior for a month or so, until
they do or don’t get what they want — and then things fall apart.
However, consistency will prove to her that she is who he wants. Stay
consistent with communication, creative dates, surprises, compliments,
honesty and effort, and she will be one happy girl.
She wants a man without baggage: Let’s face it, we all have baggage but learn how to leave the past
where it belongs — in the past. There’s truly nothing worse than his
ex-girlfriend calling 33 times during dinner. Clearly, that door is
still open, so close up the past before compromising something new with
toxic drama.
She wants a man with a plan: They need to know you have a plan. This isn’t just about money, but
more about you realizing your potential. It’s attractive if a man is
ambitious and follows his dreams and desires.Generally as a result of fear and confusion, too many people play
games in the beginnings of relationships. But, the games make it
impossible to create worthy connections.
Did I leave any out? Do you agree or disagree with this list? Feel free to discuss by leaving your comments here.
1 comment:
Well,although this post is very nicely written but what I feel as of now is people need to look up beyond money and finances sometime.
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