Over the weekend in Chicago, I attended a
conversation party and I want to give a special thanks to Allyson Vaulx
and Crystal Thomas from "7 Minutes with God" for inviting me to be a
part. I was a guest on an amazing panel giving the male perspective
(like I usually do), and I realized a few things as I was talking to the
group...
People attract what they believe they deserve. If you feel
like you are not worthy enough to be with an honest person, or live in a
good neighborhood, then guess what…you will attract those things to your
life whether you know it or not. The world is moving toward the ideas based on the “law of
attraction” but many don’t believe it or understand how to quite grab
it. They know they see other people getting everything they want, or
“attracting” everything they desire, but they are just not sure on how
to get it themselves.
Here
is the scary thing: If you don’t believe you will ever get what
you want, you will subconsciously do things to sabotage yourself! If you
don’t believe you deserve to stay in a five star hotel, you
surely won’t call up the Ritz-Carlton and book a room because part of
you believes it's out of your reach. The best hotel stay I ever had, and
where I frequently go back just to clear my head and think, or get that
getaway from the everyday is found at one of the best kept secrets out
there called the MileNorth Hotel in Chicago's Gold Coast. What if you
felt like you
deserved to stay there? Would you not look up Orbitz, Travelocity or
Hotels.com just
to see perhaps if there actually was a deal somewhere out there for you?
There's an old saying: "When you believe
something, you give life to
it". Superstitions, phobias, love, wealth, opportunities…you name it.
So, what do you deserve? But more importantly, what do you BELIEVE you
deserve? I believe there is love out there, I believe there is a "lid"
for every "pot". As I proclaim myself to be "Love's #1 Fan", I have no
other choice but to believe "The One" exists and my soulmate is waiting
for me. If I believe it for ME, surely I can believe it for YOU. The
question is, do you believe it too? Remember, you attract what you
believe you deserve...
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