Dating Interview Questions Part 2

On Friday we talked about dating being pretty much like a job interview. Wouldn't it be just perfect if it was? Unfortunately, there are stories behind every perfected answer, and you have to learn how to read between the lines in order to find out what the truth actually is. The following should help you discover who they are in their conversation, in their character, and in their closet.

1) WHY DID YOU BREAK UP WITH YOUR LAST BOYFRIEND OR GIRLFRIEND?
Breakups are often messy and full of all kinds of baggage, so this question will reveal their emotional state. Furthermore you will be able to tell by their answer if they have moved on with their life or not.

2) DO YOU WANT TO GET, OR HAVE YOU EVER BEEN MARRIED?
Nowadays you'll find someone who has been married and divorced. When you get into your late 30's chances are certain that you'll find this to be true, and they will either feel like they're ready to do it again, or never ever EVER do it anymore. Unless you share their view, you'll be wasting their time and yours too.

3) WHAT ARE YOU MOST PROUD OF IN YOUR LIFE?
This is a weighty and open ended question, and can be answered several different ways. This question is geared to give you an idea about their character, and where they place the important things in their lives.

4) WHAT CAN YOU TELL ME ABOUT THE LAST BOOK YOU READ?
You can easily find out if a person is up on their literature just by finding out what they recently read, and no, the newspaper and the Internet does not count! Personalities are determined in what people read, and its a sign if they take the time to expand their mind by picking up a book.

Now these are just a few questions to ask, and I'm sure if given the time we could go through some good ones as well as some bad ones. Let me hear from you. What questions did you ask and what did you come away thinking about that person based on the answers they gave you? Let me know in the comments section, or email me at therealcakebossblog@gmail.com.