It has been almost a month since I started this blog, and I think its time to let the bastard speak for a few minutes just to get some things straight. This page has been viewed by several of you, and many of you have asked when will there be a P.O.V. from the bastard. Well, your wait is over! Let me say first that I don't think all men are bastards, and I am not promoting you having a conversation with your man to determine whether or not you believe he is one either. However, there are bastard like qualities in every man who haven't figured out how to properly treat a woman. I say this because at one moment in my life I was that person, and I have first hand knowledge on who and what they are and do. Am I pulling the covers off men who are currently doing bastard like things to women everywhere? Absolutely! I guess you could consider me that protector of the woman's heart. After all, I once was one of the chief abusers to women and didn't care about their hearts at all. So honestly, this is productive therapy for the years and years that I had no regard or consideration to the levels of abuse I caused and administered to women everywhere. Am I looking for your judgement and condemnation? Absolutely not, but I know that it comes with the territory whether I say anything or not. With that said, lets have a transparent moment.
Ladies, a man will only do what he is ALLOWED to do. A man left unchecked by his woman is by far, the most dangerous man there is out there. Don't misunderstand me and believe that I'm saying it is your fault for your man's foolishness. I am saying that we as men pick up on who we can take advantage of and sometimes we can play that game very well. Women with low self esteem, daddy issues, abandonment issues and the like, are visible to bastards no matter how much make up you put on to hide it, or how little the clothes you put on to distract us from seeing it, or how much you do other things to dull the pain in your heart. We play up to it and use it to our advantage. I realize this is what I did myself when I was younger, and through the years I sharpened my craft and became all things to all women who had issues, and took advantage of it and them. Prime example, a man flirts with women to establish where the boundaries lie. Once he discovers where those boundaries are, it is his never ending goal and desire to cross that boundary and establish a NEW line to cross once he takes the control away from you. Every woman has the power at first, but many women lose that power when they get comfortable with a man's shullbit (you know what I'm saying).
Before I put the bastard back in his cage and leave him in there for a while, let me say this one last thing. Without exposure, a bastard will remain a bastard and let everything you regard as precious and protected to be stolen right from under you at the drop of a hat. Don't allow this type of behavior put you in a position to be taken advantage of. CHECK HIM at any cost if you need to. Re-establish the boundary, watch his behavior and don't dull your senses when you pick up on it. The intuition and investigative mindset of a woman is by any account better than that of the CIA!
