I know you are probably wondering
what kind of statement is that, as the quarterback
is the most valuable position on the team. Quarterbacks are supposedly
the star of the
team, they're usually paid the most, they lead the men in the huddle on
and
off the field, and whenever the ball is placed in their hands, everyone
expects magic to happen. They carry the weight of the team’s performance
on the field squarely on their shoulders. Once the game is over,
quarterbacks
are the ones along with the head coach that reporters scramble to get
comments from. They are influencers and decision makers, but without a
great offense and defense, they wouldn’t be able to do what they do.
Let's not forget about the punt returner? They are a valuable part of
the team as
they return the receiving ball to gain greater field position. The
better
the return, the better the chance of the quarterback leading the team
into the end-zone for a touchdown. They are however, on the field a
fraction of
the percentage time as that of the quarterback, so they are soon
forgotten and not
looked upon as the influencers or decision makers on the team. In
relationships, men often need to take a look at
THEIR position on the team.
Do our partners believe we are in it to win it, and assuming the quarterback
lead? Do they see us as punt returners who only come out on the field when called upon, hoping you're able to
finally move things forward, and put them in good position to take back
over what should be your game to lead? Men, take the quiz and see which
position you hold most often.
- Do you take the initiative to ensure the partnership is moving in a
positive direction with your finances, or do you wait to see what’s left at
the end once she pays the bills and gives you an update?
- Do you come together for regular meetings or gatherings to ensure
everyone is on the same page, or do you wait until something is out
of line and you are called to handle it?
- Do your remind your partner that she is valuable and appreciated with
reinforcements like a thank-you, or do you
constantly tune out complaints that she feels under-appreciated and
overlooked?
- After a trying and tiring day on the field (home or work) do you
take time to encourage her and have her back, or do you check out on your own
and figure she will be all right tomorrow?
- Are you invested 100% and show up daily in the relationship to work,
or are you in the relationship 50% of the time and spend it
on the sideline as a spectator?
If you find your actions are lining up with the punt returner position,
learn the lesson and adjust accordingly to become the quarterback in your relationship she needs you
to be. Lead your family and leave a legacy that would make her proud to
be a part of your winning team.
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