Five Things To Do While Waiting On Him

I know a lot of women who’ve gone through painstaking processes just trying to figure out if a man was interested in them. In fact, let’s take it a step further…I often get asked by my female friends about what they should do when they’re in those initial stages of mental bliss. So today, I’m going to provide a little 5 step manual for what women should do in the mean time between time while you’re flipping out waiting for us to show you that we actually do like you. Mind you, I’m aware that men play mental gymnastics as well, but then again, so do squirrels. It may not have anything to do with the price of tea in China, but today it all about helping the ladies out with the five things you should do while waiting for him to prove himself. 

1. Calm the hell down. You solve nothing by going ballistic and over analyzing every single email and/or text he sends you. And trust me, all men know that women love the smiley face. It’s why Forrest Gump created them. 

2. Don’t call him all the time. For one, he won’t answer. For two, you’re putting all of yours cards on the table by letting him know how pressed you are. The same way that we like to imagine what it's like to kiss you is the same way we like to think about the chick we just met who might be the last chick we get to kiss ever. The only thing that should be open 24/7 is 7-Eleven.

3. Get a little ghost on occasion. Don’t be so available. Make the dude feel like he’s working for something. If you keep making yourself available and present ALL THE TIME, what kind of life do you actually live? You should have a schedule, an agenda, appointments of your own, your calendar should be full of things to do without him. Say, "I'd love to do that with you, but I have something to do that day". See what he does next to close the deal...

4. Don’t accidentally be where you know he’s going to be. Just because he tells you where he’s going doesn’t mean he wants you to show up there. In fact, unless he says, “You should come here…” keep your happy self 100 feet away at all times unless your presence is specifically requested. I knew a woman who somehow liked to pop up where I was going to be. She popped up at my home and was hanging outside, just in case I wanted to see her. Creepy...

5. Perhaps you should continue dating. Just because you two met and hit it off doesn’t mean that he’s ready to bet the farm on you. In fact, most of us don’t even have a farm to bet, so why in the heck would we be ready to close up shop when we don’t even own one? Think about that. It’s deep. And remember, don’t get so caught up in that one dude that you forget YOU’RE NOT DATING.

Just adding some levity in today's lesson but you should pay attention to them, they just might work...

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